ellliot:

vh0:

M.I.A. by Liz Johnson-Artur


this girl needs to bring me more noize

ellliot:

vh0:

M.I.A. by Liz Johnson-Artur

this girl needs to bring me more noize

veike:

coexistancewithcoffee:

cool shirt i bought in paris of mother nature crying to create the sea

BUDGE!!!!!!!!!!!

saltwaterliving:

what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do

saltwaterliving:

what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do what do I do

tagged: +life 
Hurt him, so he can’t forget you.
Ahlam Mostghanemi (via nizariat) ←

I asked my ex, now good friend, if she would ever have an open relationship and she said, “No, I don’t think I could do that” then after a pause and a smile, “but what about love affair friendships?” She went on to describe an impenetrable fortress of female friendship, her own group of best mates who’d known each other since school and had supported and loved each other through almost all of their lifetimes. They sounded far more bonded to, and in love with one another, than their respective husbands. It struck me that we don’t have the language to reflect the diversity and breadth of connections we experience. Why is sex the thing we tend to define a relationship by, when in fact it can be simple casual fun without a deep emotional transaction? Why do we say “just friends” when, for some of us, a friendship goes deeper? Can we define a new currency of commitment that celebrates and values this? Instead of having multiple confusing interpretations of the same word, could we have different words? What if we viewed our relationships as a pyramid structure with our primary partner at the top and a host of lovers, friends, spiritual soul mates, colleagues, and acquaintances beneath that?

theamazingindi:

emosad420:

sex-funk:

emosad420:

hitimadvice:

profeminist:

Double standard, illustrated.

There it is; truth for your consideration.

It really isn’t a double standard because both genders have vastly different accessibility to sex, the situations aren’t the same, as much as women like to pretend they are.A more fitting equivalent of a female slut is a male beta, aka someone who readily doles out his commitment to females. I don’t really need to convince on how much beta-shaming goes on on this site (ie all the neckbeard / fedora / friendzone jokes)

Oh please, you can’t actually be angry that women are pissed off at these men who cry “friend zoned”And how on earth do women have different accessibility to sex? It takes two to tango… Or fuck

Did I say it angered me? I’m simply pointing out that men are shamed for being liberal in their commitment the same way women are shamed for being liberal in their sexuality. I know this is a viewpoint that gets shot down immediately because people have the gut feeling that it’s wrong, but the simple fact is that men pursue sex much more than women due to higher libido caused by testosterone levels means that the sexual marketplace much favours women. 

'i'm sad white boy who's insecure and i can't get laid, also i have no idea what i mean when i say 'accessibility to sex' because there is an entire sex industry created to service me, a white australian male, who willingly confuses and conflates shitty people who make fun of fashion/personal self care with the actual fact that there is a massive double standard for men and women”
literally grow the fuck up buddy if you buy into and behave into those stereotypes i gotta tell you they dont exist go cry somewhere else 
like do you really think you sound smart when saying ‘a more fitting equivalent’ when buying into manchild babyshit like ‘female slut’ and ‘male beta’. 
'readily doles out his commitment to females' holy shit get over yourself bro why are you talking about females like they're a fucking alien race
the ‘sexual marketplace’ is porn and women’s bodies, dude. it’s literally set up to cater to men, to us. and if you don’t believe in sex work because you think it’s ‘just wrong’ or whether or not you have the money for it (judging by your HARDCORE priv you probably do) but it’s existence is fucking proof that the ‘sexual marketplace’ is by men for men
go cry somewhere else white boy the grown ups are talking. no one else thinks this except children and you. it’s not a ‘gut feeling its wrong’ its literally people more knowledgeable than you and who have done more reading on the subject and are literally more qualified than some self-obsessed white boy on the internet! shut the fuck up you sad little shitbank! 

theamazingindi:

emosad420:

sex-funk:

emosad420:

hitimadvice:

profeminist:

Double standard, illustrated.

There it is; truth for your consideration.

It really isn’t a double standard because both genders have vastly different accessibility to sex, the situations aren’t the same, as much as women like to pretend they are.

A more fitting equivalent of a female slut is a male beta, aka someone who readily doles out his commitment to females. I don’t really need to convince on how much beta-shaming goes on on this site (ie all the neckbeard / fedora / friendzone jokes)

Oh please, you can’t actually be angry that women are pissed off at these men who cry “friend zoned”
And how on earth do women have different accessibility to sex? It takes two to tango… Or fuck

Did I say it angered me? I’m simply pointing out that men are shamed for being liberal in their commitment the same way women are shamed for being liberal in their sexuality. 

I know this is a viewpoint that gets shot down immediately because people have the gut feeling that it’s wrong, but the simple fact is that men pursue sex much more than women due to higher libido caused by testosterone levels means that the sexual marketplace much favours women. 

'i'm sad white boy who's insecure and i can't get laid, also i have no idea what i mean when i say 'accessibility to sex' because there is an entire sex industry created to service me, a white australian male, who willingly confuses and conflates shitty people who make fun of fashion/personal self care with the actual fact that there is a massive double standard for men and women”

literally grow the fuck up buddy if you buy into and behave into those stereotypes i gotta tell you they dont exist go cry somewhere else 

like do you really think you sound smart when saying ‘a more fitting equivalent’ when buying into manchild babyshit like ‘female slut’ and ‘male beta’. 

'readily doles out his commitment to females' holy shit get over yourself bro why are you talking about females like they're a fucking alien race

the ‘sexual marketplace’ is porn and women’s bodies, dude. it’s literally set up to cater to men, to us. and if you don’t believe in sex work because you think it’s ‘just wrong’ or whether or not you have the money for it (judging by your HARDCORE priv you probably do) but it’s existence is fucking proof that the ‘sexual marketplace’ is by men for men

go cry somewhere else white boy the grown ups are talking. no one else thinks this except children and you. it’s not a ‘gut feeling its wrong’ its literally people more knowledgeable than you and who have done more reading on the subject and are literally more qualified than some self-obsessed white boy on the internet! shut the fuck up you sad little shitbank! 

crydaisy:

mordecaimakara:

iloverennerhawkeye:

chainofaffection:

beyoncesugarbaby:

licquoricebitch:

chainofaffection:

Have you ever come across a homeless individual and felt totally uncomfortable?

You see them and you know they are in need, but you are not sure what to do. You know that handing them money is not the best thing. But, you also see that they clearly have some needs. Their lips are chapped. They are hungry. They are thirsty. They are asking for help.

How can you help?

Here is a simple idea - blessing bags.
This was such an easy project. We are now going to keep a few “Blessing Bags” in our car so that when we do happen to see someone on the streets who is homeless, we can hand them a Blessing Bag. I first learned of these bags from my friend, Julie. I am using the picture of her bags (see above) because the ones we took were taken in horrible lighting and turned out really grainy and hard to see what is inside of them.

If you’d like to make your own Blessing Bags, this is what you would need:

Gallon size Ziplock bags
items to go in the bags, such as:
chap stick
packages of tissues
toothbrush and toothpaste
comb
soap
trail mix
granola bars
crackers
pack of gum
band aids
mouthwash
coins (could be used to make a phone call, or purchase a food item)
hand wipes
you could also put in a warm pair of socks, and maybe a Starbucks gift card

Assemble all the items in the bags, and maybe throw in a note of encouragement. Seal the bags and stow in your car for a moment of providence.

This would be a great activity to do with some other families. Each family could bring one of the items going into the bags (ex: toothbrushes). Set up all the items around a table and walk around it with the ziplocks and fill the bags.

http://kwavs.blogspot.com/2011/05/blessing-bags-how-to.html

oh man i wanna do this

mee tooo. im bout to go to the dollar tree and rack up or a wholesale store.

All these reblogs make me so happy to see. So many amazing people on tumblr

random acts if kindness

please include a couple pairs of socks actually! Socks are among the most highly desired clothing item for homeless individuals


Holiday ideas! Also space blankets/rain ponchos would b good

crydaisy:

mordecaimakara:

iloverennerhawkeye:

chainofaffection:

beyoncesugarbaby:

licquoricebitch:

chainofaffection:

Have you ever come across a homeless individual and felt totally uncomfortable?
You see them and you know they are in need, but you are not sure what to do. You know that handing them money is not the best thing. But, you also see that they clearly have some needs. Their lips are chapped. They are hungry. They are thirsty. They are asking for help.
How can you help?
Here is a simple idea - blessing bags.

This was such an easy project. We are now going to keep a few “Blessing Bags” in our car so that when we do happen to see someone on the streets who is homeless, we can hand them a Blessing Bag. I first learned of these bags from my friend, Julie. I am using the picture of her bags (see above) because the ones we took were taken in horrible lighting and turned out really grainy and hard to see what is inside of them.

If you’d like to make your own Blessing Bags, this is what you would need:
Gallon size Ziplock bags
items to go in the bags, such as:
chap stick
packages of tissues
toothbrush and toothpaste
comb
soap
trail mix
granola bars
crackers
pack of gum
band aids
mouthwash
coins (could be used to make a phone call, or purchase a food item)
hand wipes
you could also put in a warm pair of socks, and maybe a Starbucks gift card
Assemble all the items in the bags, and maybe throw in a note of encouragement. Seal the bags and stow in your car for a moment of providence.
This would be a great activity to do with some other families. Each family could bring one of the items going into the bags (ex: toothbrushes). Set up all the items around a table and walk around it with the ziplocks and fill the bags.

oh man i wanna do this

mee tooo. im bout to go to the dollar tree and rack up or a wholesale store.

All these reblogs make me so happy to see. So many amazing people on tumblr

random acts if kindness

please include a couple pairs of socks actually! Socks are among the most highly desired clothing item for homeless individuals

Holiday ideas! Also space blankets/rain ponchos would b good

smitethepatriarchy:

holymashedpotatoesbatman:

klinki:

self diagnosing is so hard because everytime you’re like “maybe I am mentally ill” theres also a big part of you going “nah you’re probably just a naturally lazy/nasty/disgusting/useless person trying to find an excuse for your behavior” because of the institutionalized ableism that runs through everything

So go to the doctor and get an actual diagnosis?

Why don’t poor people just buy more money?

raptortooth:

mybine:

lumos5001:

amazingpeetaisnotonfire:

sluttynuggets:

aphtaiwan:

johnhamishmorstan:

I don’t understand american school years what the fuck is a freshman or a sophomore why do you have these words instead of the numbers

what why would you use numbers

so IT FUCKING MAKES SENSE WHAT THE HELL IS A SOFT MOORE OR A FRESH MAN WHY ARE THE MEN FRESH

image

America makes no sense, as usual.

bless the person that actually made the chart

laughter from France

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France what the fuck

cynicallys:

ITS AN ADD FOR FUCKINF FUNERAL SERVICES

cynicallys:

ITS AN ADD FOR FUCKINF FUNERAL SERVICES